Becoming a Sugar Baby: My Experience with Sugar Daddies

Posted by | April 28, 2023

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My name is Ashley and I’ve been a sugar baby for the past few years. I’ve had the opportunity to meet and interact with a variety of sugar daddies and I’ve learned a lot about the sugar baby lifestyle. I’ve had some great experiences and some not-so-great experiences, but overall, I’ve come away with a better understanding of how to approach and interact with sugar daddies.

Understanding a Sugar Daddy

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First and foremost, it’s important to understand that a sugar daddy is not just an older man. He is someone who is looking for companionship and more importantly, someone who is willing to invest in your well-being in exchange for your companionship. It’s important to remember that he isn’t just paying you for sex, he is also investing in you. As such, it’s important to treat him with respect and to show him that you value his time and attention.

Pleasing Your Sugar Daddy

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Pleasing your sugar daddy can involve a variety of different activities. Depending on the type of relationship you have, you may want to consider engaging in activities such as taking him out to dinner, going to the movies, or just spending time talking and getting to know each other. It’s important to remember that every sugar daddy relationship is different, so take the time to learn what your sugar daddy likes and try to accommodate his interests and desires.

You should also make sure to be respectful and attentive. Show your sugar daddy that you value his time and attention and make sure to listen to him when he talks. Compliment him when appropriate and make sure to show your appreciation for the things he does for you.

Finally, it’s important to remember that a sugar daddy wants to feel appreciated. Show him that you are grateful for his time, attention, and financial support and make sure that you let him know that you value him and the relationship you have.

Communication and Dating

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When communicating with a sugar daddy, it’s important to be professional and honest. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or to voice your opinions. Be clear about your boundaries and expectations and make sure you understand what he expects from you as well. Communication is key to any successful relationship and a sugar daddy relationship is no different.

When it comes to dating, it’s important to be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not in order to impress the sugar daddy. Be honest about who you are and what you’re looking for in a sugar daddy relationship. Be sure to dress appropriately and to be respectful when you’re out on a date.

Asking for a Sugar Baby Allowance

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As for asking for a sugar baby allowance, it’s important to be honest and straightforward. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you need. Make sure you explain why you need the allowance and make sure you are clear about the expectations you have for the allowance. It’s also important to remember that a sugar baby allowance isn’t just about money. It’s also about investing in your future and your well-being.

How much does a sugar baby in Canada earn

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The amount a sugar baby earns in Canada can vary widely depending on several factors, including the sugar baby's age, appearance, personality, location, and the terms of the arrangement. There is no fixed amount that a sugar baby can earn, as it depends on the specific agreement reached with their sugar daddy or sugar momma.

That being said, it is essential to remember that a sugar baby relationship is based on a financial arrangement. Therefore, the amount a sugar baby can expect to earn will depend on what their sugar daddy or sugar momma is willing to pay for companionship or other forms of intimacy.

I meet my sugar daddy about 3-4 times a month. My sugar daddy would give me different amounts of money depending on how long we were together. The allowance is $400-$1800. Oh, yes, I forgot to mention, I live in Ottawa for a long time. I get a sugar baby allowance of $40,000-$50,000 a year from my sugar daddies, including gifts.

Have sex with your sugar daddy

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I think having sex with a sugar daddy is pretty normal. The decision to engage in sexual activity with your sugar daddy should always be yours and based on informed consent.

It is important to establish clear boundaries and expectations with your sugar daddy before engaging in any form of intimacy. Ensure that you feel comfortable with the arrangement and are not being coerced or pressured into doing something you are not comfortable with.

Furthermore, it is essential to practice safe sex and protect yourself against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unwanted pregnancies.

Don't fall in love with a sugar daddy

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Usually, sugar daddies have their own families, and they will not abandon their families to be with you. It is important to keep in mind that a sugar daddy relationship is primarily based on a financial arrangement rather than love or romance. Therefore, it is generally advisable not to fall in love with your sugar daddy.

While it is possible to develop feelings for someone over time, it is essential to be aware of the power dynamics inherent in such relationships. A sugar daddy may use financial support as a means of exerting control or influence over you, which can complicate the dynamics of the relationship.

Additionally, a sugar daddy relationship may not necessarily provide the emotional fulfillment and support that a genuine romantic relationship can offer. It is essential to consider whether you are willing to compromise your emotional needs and desires for financial benefits.

Ultimately, the decision to fall in love with your sugar daddy is a personal one, but it is important to approach the situation with caution and consider the potential implications of such a decision.


Overall, my experience with sugar daddies has been overwhelmingly positive. I’ve learned a lot about communication, boundaries, and expectations and I’ve gained a better understanding of what it means to be a sugar baby. And while it can be intimidating to interact with older men who are much older than you, it’s important to remember that they are just people too. With a bit of understanding and respect, you can make a sugar daddy relationship work.